Most of us set goals for some kind of life tune-up every year and our New Year's resolutions rarely stick. It is estimated that 23% of us break them within a week and 45% by the end of the month.
Isn't it finally time for your midlife makeover? Do you want to recharge yourself, reinvigorate your sexy-mojo and revive your look?
Why is it so hard to commit to taking good care of YOU? Truth is unless we surround ourselves with people who will give us the support, strategies and encouragement we need it's hard to stay motivated. So I've called in the reinforcements (experts who want the best for you and want to keep you on track) for a one day event that will help you get more spirit, sass and style in your life. We will help you make 2011 the year you become your most confident self.
Michelle Cederberg www.michellecederberg.com is the guilt-free, get-to-it-guru of spirit and Dr. Trina Read www.trinaread.com will help you re-claim your sexy-mojo and I'll www.heleneoseen.com help you make friends with fashion. The day also includes lunch and a wine tasting with Wine Girl, sommelier Erin Rosar www.wgwines.com to wrap things up.
Join us on February 5th, 2011 in Calgary at the Fairmont Palliser Hotel. Shake off those January blues and join us for a booster shot of inspiration. Visit www.midlifemakeoverevent.ca for all the details and to register.
"You said you ' n ' me was gonna get out of town and for once just really let our hair down. Well darlin', look out cause my hair is comin' down"
Thelma Dickerson, Thelma & Louise
For my mother (who is now 79) the very notion of taking time for herself as a young woman was foreign. A recent immigrant from Europe she was tragically widowed at a young age with two small children to care for. Her day to day routine was caring for me and my younger brother, working from dusk to dawn and trying to survive. Her only social circle and support was from our extended family, church and a handful of close girlfriends.
Fun - what was that? Even if she did manage to find a few extra minutes in her day she would simply find more things to do for others. Culturally women were expected to take care of everyone else and forgo their own needs in order to do that - after all the martyr was a once-revered character. For her, the very idea of going out to do things just for fun without a man by her side was not even considered. Society would have labelled her selfish, a woman was expected to be tied to the home. She didn't date and marry again until she launched her youngest child.
In a recent article You Go, Girls written by Kim Gray, University of Calgary women's studies professor Fiona Nelson is quoted as saying "...the notion of women "having a good time" independent of their roles as moms and wives isn't as threatening as it might have once been. (I recall being told that my grandmother tried to launch a regular girls bridge night, but the men complained that their wives were "too loud" and "out of control." Ladies night was called to a halt and that was that.) Nelson goes on to say "When feminism was first introduced in the '60's I think men thought the world would end. But it didn't end. They are still eating supper, although occasionally they're making it...I think the men are finding out that life is less frightening when women are happy than when women are angry."
Happy wife, happy life?
Mom made sure I had the best childhood she could provide. I loved Pajama Parties when I was a giggling grade school girl - hanging out with my girlfriends and laughing a lot. In 1996 I had an idea for a fun little weekend getaway for women and since then The Pajama Party has had a life of its own. I took the concept out of the Rumpus Room to the luxurious Fairmont Jasper Park Lodge. Since then we have held annual events at a number of Fairmont resorts and city properties as well as tropical locations such as Bermuda and even a Caribbean Cruise.
Naturally, I invited my mother to come to the very first event with me. It was a big decision for her. She reminded me that she had never, ever been away on any kind of getaway that wasn't a family vacation or with her husband. She had tremendous guilt over even considering it at first, but then reluctantly and excitedly decided to come. She had the time of her life. After that first experience the guilt was gone. Several months later I was invited to speak at a Mother and Daughter Spa Weekend being held at the Fairmont Banff Springs Hotel. I invited mom. She rushed out and bought new luggage the next morning.
I've been fortunate to be able to share these experiences not only with the thousands of women who have attended these Pajama Party events over the years, but also with my two best girlfriends - my Mother Elise, and my Daughter Lisa. For us, The Pajama Party is a celebration of three generations, it's girl time we cherish with each other. We know that in good times and bad, through all the cycles of our lives we are always there for each other.
Our next event is being held at The Fairmont Jasper Park Lodge March 4-6, 2011. No one is going to scold you for staying up too late, laughing too hard or tell you to turn down the music. You can even bust out your craziest dance moves. You'll enjoy outstanding cuisine and postcard perfect scenery. We've planned a lighthearted program of seminars, demonstrations and entertainment for you to enjoy. Or, you can enjoy your own version of ME time.
Please accept my personal invitation to come and forge new friendships, deepen old ones and most important of all, have fun. Come on your own, with a friend or gather the gals in a group.Imagine a weekend with no cares or catering to anyone while you enjoy spending quality time and some good giggles with the most important women in your life.
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WHO IS HELENE?
At an angst-inducing age, Helene Oseen is trying to make sense of life as a woman, wife, mother, grandmother and girlfriend. She engages women through her writing and speaking as she shares a refreshingly personal take on mid-life with stories, anecdotes, advice and insights with her trademark warmth and wit. Helene inspires women to wear their life well in the pursuit of happiness and of course, in finding that perfect outfit...
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